We love to see you go!
This isn't just another app. Our mission is to help you leave the platform with a partner - not stay endlessly "talking." We believe in courtship with purpose: meaningful connections that move offline and toward marriage.
Know why you're here and be upfront about it. This is a space for people who are serious about marriage, not just company.
Your intention sets the tone. Say what you mean. Mean what you say.
You don't need endless texting to know if there's potential. Limit yourself to 3 online conversations (chat, video, or phone) before deciding if it's time to meet.
Chat. Connect. Then meet.
Once you've identified a connection, meet in person — ideally within a few weeks. We believe real compatibility is revealed offline.
3 conversations max then meet for a real-life or at least virtual date.
Don't stay in limbo. Use your first three in-person dates to explore alignment on values, lifestyle, and goals. If it feels right, only if it feels right, commit to courtship.
3 real dates bring clarity, not confusion.
Courtship is not "just dating." It's a focused, exclusive relationship built on clarity and shared values with the goal of discerning marriage in 3 to 12 months.
If you're not ready to pursue marriage, you're not ready to court.
Emotional clarity comes when you keep things clean. We strongly discourage sexual interaction of any kind before exclusivity and courtship. Rushing intimacy clouds judgment and delays real discernment.
Save your body until your heart and commitment are fully invested.
Not everyone is who they claim to be. Stay vigilant:
Your safety is sacred. Trust your gut and take your time.
Get beneath the surface. Ask about:
Don't just look for chemistry, look for compatibility.
Healthy courtship doesn't happen in isolation. Talk to mentors, involve elders, and welcome feedback from those who know you and want the best for you.
Love grows in community, not in secrecy.
Not every connection will be "the one." That's okay. End things gently. No ghosting. Leave the person better than you found them.
This is a temporary place. You're not meant to build a following. You're here to find one person.
Aim to be off this platform, permanently, within 12 months or less.
3for3 is a place for modern introductions with traditional values.
We believe archaic dating is still beautiful, and that marriage begins with intentional courtship.